Caring for a Colon Cancer Patient

Caring for a loved one with colon cancer, or any cancer, is a difficult and stressful time. But, it is one of the most amazing gifts you can give your loved one while they are ill. Any support or help will be appreciated, even if you just stop by to listen or do some housework.

Some of us are, or will, be the primary caretaker for a loved one with cancer, here are some helpful tips to keep in mind:

• Ask the doctor questions if you are at the patient’s appointment and do not understand something he or she says.
• Be prepared for your loved one to have changes in their behavior and moods. Medications, stress, worry, and discomforts can cause them to become moody, depressed, or angry.
• Encourage the patient to be active and independent as much as possible. This will help them regain their sense of self-confidence and self-reliance.
• You cannot take care of someone else if you do not take care of yourself. Eat properly, get enough sleep, and take time for yourself.
• Ask other friends or family members for help.
• Keep a positive attitude, especially around your loved one.
• Keep in mind, this is not about you. It is about the patient.
• Accept that there are events that you cannot control.
• Let your loved one set the tone for the day – they might be talkative, sad, upset, angry, quiet, etc.
• Consider joining a support group to share your experiences and learn from others. 

For more helpful tips and information, please visit the Newly Diagnosed and Helpful Links pages on the Susan Cohan Colon Cancer Foundation.



Sources:
http://www.webmd.com/colorectal-cancer/guide/tips-family-friends http://coloncancer.about.com/od/additionalresources/a/supportlovedone.htm